Monday, November 30, 2009

The Before and After

Holy Crap! It’s been 5 months since I landed on American soil!


In the first 24 hours I drove my car, got a trendy new cell phone, and ate a delicious chipotle burrito… life was GOOOOOOOOOOOD!


Seeing my family and friends back home for the first time in a year made me incredibly happy… and I put my birth family’s picture on my cell phone so I didn’t forget them and could see them everyday, too.


Now that I’m back, I am all about being Asian – which is different from before.


Before, I wouldn’t order the “Asian Oriental Salad” at the restaurant b/c I thought it was a cliché. Now, I still haven’t ordered one but he if it sounds good one day, I’ll go for it.


Before, I didn’t even open the menu at the Korean Restaurant b/c I always ordered the same thing. Now, I look at the menu and it takes me a while to try and narrow it down to one entrée to eat.


Before, I stayed away from “Asian looking dresses” b/c I didn’t want to look TOO Asian. Now, I try to seek out Asian looking patterns.


Before, I just drank my beer as soon as it arrived. Now, I am all about a group "cheers" before taking a sip.


Before, I would just say “that’s nice.” Now I say “that’s bery bery nice-ah” – I love speaking Konglish now :)


Before, you wouldn’t catch me in a Konglished shirt. Now, I wear my “The Shinin Out Like Stars” and “ABCDER” shirts with pride.


Before, I didn’t care about wrinkles. Now, I put my eye cream on every night (thanks to my friend Hyun Joo for purchasing it for me).


Before, I didn’t feel a need to associate with other Asians. Now, I want lots of Asian friends.


Before, I didn’t notice or care if I was the only Asian in the crowd. Now, I notice Asians around me and if it’s just me representing.


Before, I knew I was Asian. Now I’m proud of it.

2 comments:

Unknown said...

So glad that Korea had such an impact on you. Never forget where you came from...and damn you and your Chipotle burritos!

Thinking of you in Hong Kong!

soyeon said...

i miss the "cheers" with you.
and don't forget to put on eye cream every night :)